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5 Powerful Ways to Increase Mental Health

Don Grier

The Benefits of Fellowship on Mental Health

Today, October 10, 2024 is World Mental Health Day.  Accordingly, our blog today focuses on the positive impact of fellowship and companionship on mental well-being and overall wellness. 

Numerous studies have shown the positive effects of companionship.  One study found that married people have a longer life expectancy than single people:  an average of 2.2 years for married men and 1.5 years for married women (Read Article from U.S. Medicare Health Outcome Survey (HOS)).  The longer life expectancy of happily married people is partly due to their mutual support.

Humans are inherently social animals. Friendship and group participation provides support, accountability, and meaning. But despite the positive impact of companionship, we are getting lonelier.

 A disturbing fact is that 15% of men have no close friends.   The same Western Oregon Study stated that the U.S. Men’s suicide rate is at its highest level ever at 14.3 men per 100,000.  We need to do something to stem this epidemic of loneliness.

But not all people are joiners.  For those less inclined to engage in groups, interacting with pets positively impacts well-being. These include decreased levels of cortisol, blood pressure, and loneliness.

One look at our daughter’s dog Beau, pictured below, waiting expectantly, shows why. Pets love us unconditionally if we treat them right.  They can serve as a sounding board and comfort as you face daily anxieties.  One look at Beau playing with his toy can brighten the darkest day.

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Why is companionship, whether it be human or pet, so critical to mental well-being?  Here are the five reasons for this and examples from my life.

Emotional Support and Encouragement 

One of the best reasons to join a group or form a friendship is to encourage one another.  Life alone is tough, and tackling hardships or an addiction is even more challenging.  Finding a friend or group to share mutual support can keep you on track when confronting an addiction or facing a medical or other type of obstacle. 

I could never have overcome my stressful eating habits without my friends at the Round Rock, Texas, WW group. For the last ten years, I have shared my successes and failures with a group of like-minded weight loss journeyers. Their encouragement and support during the ups and downs of my weight loss journey were instrumental to my getting healthy. I now love playing it forward, helping others improve their health in the group.

Sharing Ideas Improves Mental Health

Fellowship also helps us grow intellectually through the sharing of ideas.  I have grown in areas of interest by engaging with people interested in the same topic.  Two such groups were the Learning to Lead Book Club at my prior company and the two business networks I am currently a member of, BXN in Austin and 10X Vets.  

I established the Learning to Lead Book Club for those interested in improving their management and team-building abilities. Each month, the group read and discussed a book that improved their leadership abilities. The leader responsible for that month also wrote a blog on the group’s discussion. I am initiating a new free program hosted by Wellness Leadership, LLC. If interested, please sign up for the Learning to Lead Informational Session. 

The Business Exchange Network in Austin has several monthly sessions around Austin and its suburbs to bring business owners together to share ideas on running a business and referrals. 10X Vets does a similar thing for Veterans on a national level.  Both of them have helped me learn and move outside my comfort zone.

Sense of Belonging and Sharing Activities

We all crave belonging to a group and a higher purpose. A few weeks back, I blogged about a remarkable group supporting the mental well-being of returning veterans: Irreverent Warriors. During a day-long march and social event, this group brings together veterans to share stories and humor to lighten the load and support Veteran mental health. Don, the Change Well podcast host, will lead a similar team on a 6+ mile ruck march on Veterans Day in Temple, Texas.  If interested, sign up for Rucks on Main on our Event site.  

Employee resource groups (ERGs) are a good way for companies to establish a sense of belonging and share activities. Companies such as Accenture have an ERG program to accommodate their employees’ diverse interests.

Reduced Loneliness Improves Mental Health

Our opening statistics demonstrated that companionship with family, friends, and pets reduces loneliness. I gave a shout earlier to my granddog, Beau, but I would be remiss if I failed to mention our dog Boots.   

Boots’ impact on my and my wife’s well-being is well chronicled in previous blog posts.  Boots was by my side as we both got healthy, and he has been a stalwart companion to my wife and me when we are apart.  But there is one other area of mental health that Boots has assisted me with – patience.  Boots is getting up in dog years.  He is 16 or 114 years old in human years.  He is still spry in many ways, but he has improved my and my wife’s patience as we take him on slow, wandering walks. 

boots the dog

Accountability

One of the most essential things to mental well-being is being accountable for your actions and direction.  Well-intentioned groups and friends can hold you accountable as you strive to change well.  A weekly weigh-in holds us responsible for our weekly health goals in WW.  Another group that has been instrumental in helping me improve my prayer life is Exodus 90.  I will ever be grateful to my seven fellow Exodus 90 brothers for our weekly accountability

Unlock the Body’s Self-Healing Secrets

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This is the second week in a row that I am touting a book on the Change Well blog and podcast. I have heard good things about Bill Bryson’s The Body for several years, and now that I have read it, I can see why! The body has amazing ways to heal itself.

The human body’s mysteries are as riveting as any thriller by Baldacci or Patterson. Even though the human body is the most studied topic in science, we are just beginning to understand its astonishing features.   The quote below is just one incredible fact about the body from a book chock full of them.

“Unpacked, you are positively enormous. Your lungs smoothed out, would cover a tennis court, and the airways within them would stretch nearly from coast to coast. The length of all your blood vessels would take you two and a half times around Earth. The most remarkable part of all is your DNA (or deoxyribonucleic acid). You have a meter of it packed into every cell, and so many cells that if you formed all the DNA in your body into a single strand, it would stretch ten billion miles, to beyond Pluto. Think of it: there is enough of you to leave the solar system. You are in the most literal sense cosmic.”

Bryson, Bill. The Body (p. 17). Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.

After reading about the fantastic gift of the body, I was grateful. But I was also upset when I reflected on the many years that I had not taken care of my body. Indeed, I had made a mess of the miracle of me. I had to take action both spiritually and physically, or I would succumb to one of my self-induced ailments.

Before I decided to change well, my inflammation markers were off the charts.  Also, my blood sugar was in the pre-diabetic stage, and the power of my heart contraction was half what it should be.  I was in a bad state, and my health showed it.  I had severe bronchitis three times a year with at least one bout of walking pneumonia.  I would almost fall asleep while driving home from work and suffered from sleep apnea.  I threw out my back multiple times, which was impacting me at work.

Why am I telling you all this? I don’t want to make you feel sorry for me or yourself if you are in a similar situation. Instead, I want to go over what I did to get well with the help of the fantastic gift of the body. 

As impressive as the fact that our DNA, if laid out end to end, would reach past Pluto is the fantastic self-healing property of the body and its inhabitants.  We have beneficial microbes inside our body that protect us and can heal our inflammation if we provide them with hospitable environments.  Likewise, digesting magnesium through leafy vegetables and nuts can help with heart health by providing nutrients that support the heart to beat more efficiently.  One last example is the regenerative nature of sleep.  As stated in a recent blog, lack of sleep can cause weight gain, stress, and inflammation through excessive cortisol.  But getting enough sleep (at least 7 hours) provides many benefits as we shall see. 

These are just three of the body’s astonishing self-correcting mechanisms. Let’s examine the abovementioned problems (inflammation, Type 2 diabetes, and lack of immunity) to see how the body’s self-healing processes can correct them.

Reducing Inflammation in the Body

Increased inflammation markers, such as C-reactive protein (CRP) measurements, are one of the surest signs that your body is not healthy. When I was at my most unhealthy, my only out-of-range tests were C-reactive protein and slightly heightened glucose levels. The problem is that the CRP test, although inexpensive, is not always part of a standard platform. It was only when I ordered a more extensive physical that I found that my CRP was so out of range that it was literally off the paper!

In my case, the CRP indicated a heart problem, which was confirmed by further tests.  Besides my prescribed medication, I decided to use my body’s healing properties to control the inflammation. 

Here are five things that I did to get the inflammation under control.

 Improved Hydration.  I was chronically dehydrated due to my habit of 5-6 diet Cokes a day and lack of drinking water.  Staying properly hydrated helps to flush out the toxins in your body that cause inflammation.  The water in Diet Coke is more than offset by the caffeine in the soda.  Additionally, artificial sweeteners and coloring in Diet Coke and other processed products can cause inflammation.  I changed to naturally carbonated water with lemon to get my eight glasses daily for the day.  

Improved Diet.  I changed my diet to include more vegetables such as Brussels sprouts and broccoli and added more Omega-3 fats with some fish (I still do not love fish) and walnuts (which I do).  I also switched from my nightly snack of ice cream to yogurt flavored with berries and a bit of sugar-free vanilla mix.  This change had two benefits.  It removes the harmful sugar and fat in ice cream while adding the probiotics inside the yogurt.  More on the wonder of probiotics and gut health will be discussed in the next section.

Increased Vitamin D.  One of the most beneficial elements in reducing inflammation is Vitamin D.  The CDC reports that up to 90% of people in Northern regions do not get enough Vitamin D.  This was the case with me, confirmed by my extended blood panel. 

The best way to get Vitamin D is through sunlight, but there is often not enough sunlight during the winter months to get enough.  In one of the most interesting anecdotes in The Body, Bryson explains the importance of Vitamin D and how evolution and modern life have made it impossible to consume enough of it.

“Vitamin D is vital to health. It helps to build strong bones and teeth, boosts the immune system, fights cancers, and nourishes the heart. It is thoroughly good stuff. We can get it in two ways—from the foods we eat or through sunlight… (however) the slow evolution of different skin tones worked fine when people stayed in one place or migrated slowly, but nowadays increased mobility means that lots of people end up in places where sun levels and skin tones don’t get along at all. In regions like northern Europe and Canada, it isn’t possible in the winter months to extract enough vitamin D from weakened sunlight to maintain health no matter how pale one’s skin, so vitamin D must be consumed as food, and hardly anyone gets enough… To meet dietary requirements from food alone, you would have to eat fifteen eggs or six pounds of Swiss cheese every day…”

Bryson, Bill. The Body (pp. 29-30). Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.

I will not eat six pounds of Swiss cheese or return to my previous weight, so I take a supplement.

Exercised Moderately.  One of the best ways to reduce inflammation is to get off the couch.  Exercise increases circulation and helps you to sweat out toxins.  You do not have to do a lot to get the positive benefits of exercise in reducing inflammation.  Walking 30 minutes or doing moderate weight lifting or stretching reduces inflammation while avoiding the risk of injury.

Supported the body’s detoxification systems. The liver and the lymphatic system are two of the human body’s most amazing components.  The liver is so vital that if it shuts down, you will die in a few hours.  It cleanses out toxins that cause inflammation and other harmful effects.  The best way to aid this vital organ is to cut down on alcohol and not become obese or overweight.  When I began to reduce my weight and alcohol consumption, my liver improved and aided in further reducing inflammation. We will cover the lymphatic system more in discussing how to improve immunity.

These five steps helped me get my inflammation makers in the low range of standard and immensely improved my heart health and immunity, as further discussed below.

Reducing the Risk of Type II Diabetes

Type II diabetes is at epidemic levels in the US, with one in ten Americans having this chronic condition.  It has many harmful effects, including loss of limbs, heart problems, loss of eyesight, and reduced liver function.  I was in a prediabetic state when I decided to take action using the five steps above and these two additional steps.

Reduced Sugar and Artificial Sweeter Intake.  I had a giant sweet tooth before making changes to reduce the chance of diabetes.  I stopped my ice cream and Peanut M&M habit and switched to fruit if I needed something sweet.  Eating fruit whole provides fiber, another critical element in tackling inflammation and helping to keep your metabolism regulated.  I have also cut down on artificial sweeteners since they can somewhat mimic sugars in the body.  I have also substituted refined sugar with honey for those sweets I occasionally eat.

Improved gut health through probiotics.   I have also increased my probiotic intake by eating Kimchi, non-fat plain yogurt, and other probiotic-rich foods.  My favorite chapter in Bryson’s book is on the microbes that live in our gut and are essential to the efficient breakdown of food.  One interesting fact in the chapter is that roughly half of the cells in the body are microbes, and half are human cells.  Additionally, studies have shown that thinner people have more varied microbes in their digestive tract. 

These two positive steps and the five in the previous section have helped reduce my glucose to normal levels. In the last nine years, my yearly tests have all remained in the normal range.

Improve Immunity

The improvement in my immunity from these actions and those about to be mentioned have been nearly miraculous.  I no longer spend two months a year with either bronchitis or pneumonia.  I have had neither since reducing my inflammation and glucose to normal levels.  In addition, there have been two other keys.

Improved sleep.  In previous blogs, I have discussed the steps (CPAP, sleep hygiene, mindfulness, and others).   Here is the most recent one.   Besides helping you control your weight and work more efficiently, sleep is your body’s way to restore and reset your immune system for another day.  It is often the case that we become sick because we are rundown from a lack of sleep.  I know this to be a fact in my case.  Bryson explains the therapeutic properties of sleep in his chapter on sleep.

“Sleep has been tied to many biological processes—consolidating memories, restoring hormonal balance, emptying the brain of accumulated neurotoxins, resetting the immune system. People with early signs of hypertension who slept for one hour more per night than previously showed a significant improvement in their blood pressure readings. It would seem to be, in short, a kind of nightly tune-up for the body.”

Bryson, Bill. The Body (p. 310). Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group. Kindle Edition.

Taking Care of the Lymphatic System.  The lymphatic system is critical to our immunity.  It produces lymphocytes and other immune cells that fight off infection.  Keeping it working correctly is vital to improved immune response.  How can you help keep your lymphatic system strong?  Exercise is crucial since it moves the lymph fluid around.  Unlike blood, it is not pumped by the heart.  Instead, you exercise your lymphatic system and keep it in proper order by exercising yourself!

These are just some ways to help your body help itself!  Look for ways to heal yourself naturally.  You may not always find the solution, so work with your doctor. However, as I found in my extreme case, the body is a miraculous gift!  Often, the way to change well is to support your body’s natural healing properties.  I highly recommend Bryson’s book The Body to learn more about the miraculous gift of the body.  And until next time, honor your body by changing well!

Transition To Your Second Act and A Happier You

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I read many books each year. Most books give me a point or two on how to transition and improve, which I consider an excellent ROI for a 6 – 8-hour commitment. But I would consider very few books so life-changing that I would devote a blog or a podcast to them alone. 

One such book, The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg, is one I read ten years ago. As documented in my previous blog, The Return of Elvis: Seven Habits for Wellness, this book launched my wellness journey based on its insights into the habit cycle.   However, today’s blog is about a book I just read, which I hope will be as life-changing as Duhigg’s book was for me. The book is called From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life by Arthur C. Brooks.

The book contains insights; I need to write another book or at least a fifty-page summary to cover them all! So, I will stick to the five most important for me and briefly discuss how I apply them.

Fluid vs. Crystalized Intelligence. 

Citing Raymond Cattel’s work, Brooks discusses the two types of intelligence people have during their lifetimes. The first is fluid intelligence, “which Catrell defined as the ability to reason, think flexibly, and solve novel problems.”[i]  This type of intelligence tends to drive most innovation and begins to dissipate in most people in their thirties or early forties.  Examples are technology founders who tend to make their most significant innovations during their youth.  Another example is Albert Einstein and other Nobel Prize winners whose most extraordinary findings are in their youth.

 But for those of us past forty, don’t worry.  Fluid intelligence gives way to crystallized intelligence, “defined as the ability to use a stock of knowledge in the past.”[ii]   This type of intelligence grows in most of us for the rest of our lives.  I love Brooks’s metaphor in the book of an extensive library.  Finding the right book or quote to resolve a problem may take some time, but it is tucked away somewhere in the collected experience that we call wisdom.

People Need to Transition to Their Second Act.

The upshot of the two types of intelligence curves is that you should transition to a new direction in life earlier than most people do.  Many people whose fluid intelligence is waning stay in a role that values their fluid intelligence instead of switching to one that favors their ascending crystallized intelligence or wisdom. 

People stay on too long trying to recapture their glory days.  An example we can all understand is the Olympic athlete or football player (other than Tom Brady) who tries to stay on for one last season when they should have switched to coaching to impart their knowledge to another.  While few of us are athletes, most middle-aged people have experienced some decline in productivity in our initial field.  Hence, the term mid-life crisis.

Brooks uses the example of J.S. Bach, who executed the transition to his second act well.  J.S. Bach was a musical innovator, but when the style of music changed,  he transitioned to teacher and supporter of his children’s careers.  He is now remembered for the composition The Art of Fugue, which he wrote during his second act when others seemingly surpassed him.  Like J.S. Bach, we would be better served and happier by pursuing activities such as coaching and teaching that use crystallized intelligence.  Those who jump to their “second curve “earlier have happier and more rewarding lives.

Why Do We Wait to Transition? Success Addiction.

So why do people take so long to transition to their second act and ride the curve of crystalized knowledge to happiness and achievement of a different kind?  Brooks points out in his third chapter that success addiction causes us to hang on even when we are missing a step.  He illustrates the problem in the following paragraph related to one of his friends.

“We know in our hearts that the objectification of others is wrong and immoral. But it is easy to forget that we can do it to ourselves as well. My financier friend had objectified herself to be special, with a self-definition that revolved around work, achievement, worldly rewards, and pride. Even though that object was slowly eroding, she was too attached to her worldly success to make [iii]the changes that could now bring her happiness.”[iv]

I can relate to Brooks’s friend.  I have foregone vacations, time with family, and cultivating friends because I did not want my work colleagues to think I was slacking.  Also, our literature is rife with examples of people who pursued work success over family and friends.  The most poignant example is Willie Loman in The Death of a Salesman,  who committed suicide after losing his job when he continued his work as a traveling salesman.  He could not jump to his second curve.

Chip Away to A New You.

So, how do you get off the success wheel and transition to the next curve?  The best way is not to jump all at once but start chipping away at your first act and sculpting your second act.  Brooks gives good advice in this area in his book.

 One is to focus on your core work and forego taking on tasks that may get you some material success but take you away from family and friends.  A further recommendation is to cultivate your Aspen Grove.  Each Aspen tree is large but has a very shallow individual root system.  Instead, an Aspen Grove “is the largest living organism in the world” since the roots of individual trees in the grove are interconnected.  Brooks explains this metaphor:

“We may look solitary, but we form a vast root system of families, friends, communities, nations, and indeed the entire world. The inevitable changes in my life-and yours aren’t a tragedy to regret. They are just changes to one interconnected member of the human family-one shoot from the root system. The secret to bearing my decline-no, enjoying it-is to be more conscious of the roots linking me to others.         If I am connected to others, in love, my increase will be more than offset by the increase to others…”[v]

I followed this advice before reading the book.  I began chipping away at the old me and moved on to my second curve.  At the time, I was working at my full-time job, but I knew I had to start making the shift to my second act. So, like any good blogger, I made an acronym for my second act.   The abbreviation CRAFT represents my aspirations as a coach, religious, author, friend, and teacher.  I am happy to say I am well on the way to all pursuits. 

I started coaching my team more in my old role.  Now, in retirement, I have started a coaching business.  I also maintained a daily spiritual practice and became involved in several religious ministries.  I began two blogs and am now working on a non-fiction and poetry book.  I have become more intentional about cultivating friendships.  Lastly, I am teaching math and religion classes.  These activities cannot replace my former work regarding material success, but they more than makeup for it in terms of happiness, purpose, and success. 

What Does The New You Look Like?

Brooks closes with seven words that he strives to follow in his second curve:

Use things.

Love people.

Worship the Divine.[vi]

These words ring true to me.  As you get closer to the end, things should have a declining grip on your life.  I will not regret getting the latest gadget, but I will regret if I do not reconcile with a friend or tell your family that you love them.  Also, my Divine may differ from yours, but those who look beyond themselves have more happiness and peace.   

I want to end with a poem that came to me while meditating on my first act and contemplating the second.  As we move to our second season, we should focus on the goodness of this world and forego the great. 

Be good, not great,

For the time is late,

And we have but a day,

To show the way!

Seek kindness, not power,

Make Love a Tower,

Your heart the leaven,

To seek out heaven.

Take time, don’t wait,

For eternity is our fate,

If we do what is asked,

And complete our task.

Seek peace, not fame,

As your temptations you tame,

For the time is late!

Be good, not great.

[i] Brooks, Arthur C. (2022). From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life (1st Edition). New York: Portfolio/Penguin. p. 26.

[ii] Brooks, Arthur C. (2022). From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life (1st Edition). New York: Portfolio/Penguin. p. 27

 

[iv] Brooks, Arthur C. (2022). From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life (1st Edition). New York: Portfolio/Penguin. p. 45

[v] Brooks, Arthur C. (2022). From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life (1st Edition). New York: Portfolio/Penguin. p. 113

[vi] Brooks, Arthur C. (2022). From Strength to Strength: Finding Success, Happiness, and Deep Purpose in the Second Half of Life (1st Edition). New York: Portfolio/Penguin. p. 215

Six Amazing Tracking Tips for Weightloss and Wellness

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Last week’s blog was a little out there even for me.  I enjoyed tying the ideas and lives of Winston Churchill and David Bowie about purposeful change together.  If you have not already, you should listen, even to hear me imitate the musical chameleon, Bowie.  But for today’s podcast, I decided to reel it back into a topic a little less out there, a little more meat and potatoes!   That is the importance of tracking your wellness journey, whether it be the meat and potatoes you consume, the steps you walk, or those moments of serendipity that bring you happiness each day!

Some in the wellness industry give tracking a bad name. Some firms even want you to buy prepackaged foods, mixes, and pills so you can avoid what they consider the mundane practice of tracking. Buy our food, lose weight, and leave the monitoring to us! Do our specific exercise routine and watch your muscles grow and your stomach shrink. Better yet, take this pill or shot, and you don’t have to exercise or watch what you eat. 

Let me debunk these claims of the wellness industry.   First and foremost, people like to choose their food and want variety. You should feel liberated in your food choices, not restricted.  Also, what you gain in convenience from prepacked food, you lose in knowing how to eat nutritionally for your body type.  Lastly, when you run out of money for the next shot or order of prepacked food, you have no habits to fall back on and gain weight.  Trust me.  I am the guy who tried every prepackaged diet and exercise routine until I went old-school and decided to take matters into my own hands.

Today, I track the food I eat, my daily exercise routines, and even the beneficial habits I want to adopt and the bad habits I want to limit. It may seem like a lot of work, but trust me, it’s worth it.  Like a science experiment, you must track all variables in your wellness journey. And just like in business, you can only improve what you track. This is not just a personal journey but a proven method that I urge you to consider for your wellness journey.  

The human body is one of the most complicated organisms on the planet.  New things are discovered daily despite being the most studied topic since the existence of science.  Also, no two people are exactly alike.  What works for one person may not work for you.  Therefore, owning your wellness and tracking your habits and the outcomes they produce is essential. 

For ten years, I have tracked my activity, food intake, habits, mindfulness, and sense of well-being. The result? I lost half my body weight, eliminated sleep apnea, improved my disposition, and became more fit.    Here are some recommendations for those of you initiating a tracking habit.

1.  Track everything you eat or drink. 

The best way to lose weight is to track what you eat.  You will better understand portion control and the trigger foods you need to avoid by consciously tracking your food intake.  You use this and weekly weight tracking to determine what works and what foods to avoid.  That way, you can focus on what works rather than trying everything that doesn’t! 

2. Track before you attack. 

The first rule is always to figure out what you will have before departing.  Most restaurants now post nutritional values on menus on their website.  Read the menu, pick your menu items, and record the calories before departing.  Like a good soldier, never eat without a good plan of attack. This preparation gives you a sense of control and confidence in your choices.

3. Indulge but count.  

You can indulge a bit on vacation or a celebration.  While on Vacation, I shared a few desserts with my wife for the first time in a long time.  But I also carefully tracked everything I ate to know I was in striking distance for the week.  By monitoring and not attacking the buffet line, I could enjoy some of the colonial recipes and comfort foods in Virginia on a recent vacation in a controlled manner.  I was able to indulge and avoid the bulge!

4.  Gamification.

Tracking your food, habits, and activities can become mundane, so make a game of it.  I use the Fitbit application and the WW application to track food activity.  In the WW application, I try to get a blue dot award (staying in a recommended point zone) five days a week.  By striving for the Blue Dot, I had fun and learned different approaches to balance activity and food intake.  Likewise, I have step contests with my friends on the Fitbit application and engage in friendly banter and competition.

5. Listen to Your Body and Record Your Well-Being. 

Your body knows what it wants.  That is the reason too many hamburgers and fries cause you to indigestion.    Feed your body with the good stuff.  Choose vegetables and fruit over candy and sugar.  Remember, just like listening to someone, you must listen to your body closely to understand what it says.  Then, record your well-being and compare it to your activity, habits, and food intake. You may think your body is saying I need sleep when, in reality, your body is saying I need to exercise and get energy, or I am dehydrated and need water. 

6.  Three Applications that Help You Track.  

Here are three applications that have helped me track.

WW application.   I am amazed at this application and consider it one of the best mobile applications I have ever used.  This is coming from a guy who built applications for a living.  The best feature is its tracking application, which allows you to scan food bar codes and track the WW points that you use.  It also has a Connect feature that will enable you to connect to other people on the Weight Watchers journey.  In addition, it has a feature that allows you to reach a Weight Watcher employee any time of the day through instant messaging to answer questions and provide inspiration.  This feature once prevented me from eating a seemingly healthy wrap, which was half my allotted food intake!  This application has a monthly subscription, but it is worth it if you want to lose weight.  My Fitness Pal is an alternative free application, but I like WW’s features.

Fitbit is a fantastic application and tool. I use it daily to track my exercise, measure my heart rate and sleep, and participate in competitions with my friends. I no longer have a watch; instead, I wear my Fitbit as a watch. It also has a feature to track the number of glasses of water I drink daily, another critical element of weight loss. One of my most prized possessions from Fitbit is the 100,000-step Olympian Sandal for walking 50 miles daily. 

Happyfeed is a simple but powerful application! Each day, it reminds you to log three things you are happy about. This helps you think of the good stuff and not get depressed. The app also has a feature that allows you to add pictures and look at history.

Streaks allows you to set repeating habits and track them daily. Establishing habits and tracking them is vital in achieving goals related to weight loss and other areas. Some of my habits that help with weight loss are journaling for 15 minutes daily, writing a blog weekly, and praying daily.

In closing, you need to track to keep on track and change well.  You can only change what you measure, and by tracking, you better know what habits you need to change.