Five More Powerful Guidelines for the Wellness-Led Organization

We are on the third of four blogs and associated podcasts located at this link – Podcast – discussing the Well-Led guidelines for a successful organization that simultaneously cares for its employees and mission.  You can apply these guidelines to lower risk and increase organizational, program, and project success.

Before discussing Well-Led Guidelines six through ten, let me briefly summarize the previous two blogs.  The first two blogs are located at Three Key Reasons Your Organization Should Be Wellness-Led and Five Essential Guidelines for the Well-Led Organization.

In the first blog, we gave three reasons why support of employee wellness is essential for an organization intent on ensuring sustainable access and lowering risk.  A focus on employee wellness leads to better decision-making, strong camaraderie, a shared sense of purpose, and a reduction in sick days with a corresponding increase in productivity.

In the other blog, we looked at the first five Well-Led Guidelines; all focused on planning with employee health as a critical input.  The first five guidelines were:

  1. Acknowledge that overwork is counterproductive, so plan for downtime in your schedule.  Do not overallocate your people.
  2. Build downtime away from work during the week to allow people to focus on non-work-related tasks.
  3. Incorporate fun and incentives into work.  Indeed, all work and no play makes for a dull existence.
  4. Keep your team energized with healthy and culturally appropriate snacks.
  5. Don’t risk your employees’ health by making them come to the office during a weather or other emergency.

These are just the highlights of the first five Well-Led guidelines. Five Essential Guidelines for the Well-Led Organization has examples of how to do it and anecdotes of what goes wrong if you do not follow the Well-Led guidelines.

Now, let’s jump into Well-Led Guidelines six through ten. 

6. Build civility and respect for the individual in all company processes.   We all know what happens when people do not treat each other civilly.  You have stalemates, animosity, in-action, and resentment.   Just look at the dialogue on Twitter now, X, or our current political impasse. On the other hand, we all know what happens when a team actively listens to one another and allows a voice for the opposite viewpoint.  You make a better decision, avoid group thinking, and build a shared purpose.  But it is not easy.  This does not mean you never need a tiebreaker; that is when authentic leadership emerges.  Or that you always have consensus.  It means that everyone involved understands the reason for the decision and emerges as colleagues who respect but do not necessarily agree.  And perhaps, the opposing viewpoint is turned to when the initial decision does not work.

How do you build an organization based on civility and respect for the individual? Believe it or not, I turn to two political figures:  our first president, George Washington, and a hero of mine and favorite Professor, Texas Congresswoman Barbara Jordan. 

When he was 16, George Washington wrote 110 rules of civility to guide his life. Washington wrote down the rules presumably as an exercise in penmanship but later committed them to practice and memory. They helped develop the decorum, civility, and courage that guided Washington through war and the birth of this nation. You can read Washington’s Rules of Civility here. Washington’s Rules

The rules initially composed by French Jesuit priests in 1565 range from the practical to the profound.  Respect and civility toward friend and foe are at the root of the rules.  Rule 1 lays this idea out perfectly with the words:  “Every action done in the company ought to be with some sign of respect to those that are present.”  Many in the public sphere would do well to take this rule to heart!

Most of the rules have applications today.  One of them that I found particularly compelling is Rule 18:  “Read no letters, books, or papers in the company, but when there is a necessity for the doing of it, you must ask leave: come not near the books or writings of another to read them unless desired or give your opinion of them unasked also look not nigh when another is writing a letter.”   What does this mean for our sixth Well-Led Guideline?  When you are in a face-to-face meeting, no laptop or phone use.  If you are remote, put your camera on and be present.  No multi-tasking.

There are many more applicable rules on civility.  We have added a link to my blog on this topic in the blog in the show notes.  Washington Rules of Civility for Today

Many of you who pass through Austin have seen the statue of the airport’s namesake, Congresswoman Barbara Jordan.  Ms. Jordan, who I was fortunate to have as a Professor at LBJ School of Public Affairs, was a towering intellect, the epitome of integrity, and a hero to all Texans. She also encapsulated in one person the power of diversity and the spark and spirit that binds us together.

Ms. Jordan, I, and other students had many engaging debates in the classroom.  These discussions were governed by Ms. Jordan’s rules of Civil Discourse, which I took from her engagement in the discussion. I believe each organization should implement something similar.

  1. She understood all angles of an issue. In particular, she could often articulate the opposing views’ perspective better than they could themselves.
  2.  She would then clarify where she agreed with their perspective to emphasize where there was common ground.
  3. Only then would she respectfully bring up where she differed from the group or person’s perspective with concise arguments based on her view of the facts.

7. Technology to help, not replace people.  This next rule, believe it or not, is related to the one that came before.  Organizations, particularly technology-focused ones,  can show bias toward technology, just as human-focused organizations can show to the person with the loudest bullhorn.   Use technology, particularly AI, in a judicious manner.  AI and other technology should be used to free humans from the mundane and to spark creativity from the launchpad of technology.  Not to replace them entirely but to add more value to the organization. 

8. Celebrate diversity and learn about other cultures. Diversity of opinion and the ability to share ideas across cultures, creeds, generations, and genders is transforming.  Each of us brings to a solution a unique perspective that no one else can replicate.  It is tempered by our experiences, upbringing, and the place we call home.  Each person was put on this earth to fulfill a unique purpose.  A true leader’s mission is to meld the singular talents of each person to gain the best result.  What unites us is undoubtedly more significant than what divides us; what unites us is the spark of humanity in each person! It is also imperative for personal growth to learn from one another and to celebrate differences.

In rule six, we already talked about how civilly listening to diverse opinions brings better decisions and engages all participants when done right.  But it also is essential to allow people to be exposed to other cultures in a non-work environment to build understanding.  One way to do this is to build an event like I did with my team.  Each year, we had a Festival of Lights where team members all over the globe shared their holiday pictures and discussed their festival of lights (Diwali, Christmas, Hanukkah, Bodi Day, Quanza, and many more).  It was not mandatory, but people loved it.  It showed the commonalities and differences of our team in a positive light. 

9. Always plan for training. Not planning for training when taking on a new venture or bringing a new person into the organization can hurt morale and stymie productivity.  In my experience, most people want to expand their capabilities and follow their organization into new ventures.  It is, therefore, crucial to provide well-constructed training so people feel that the organization is vested in them and they are enabled for the task in front of them.  I have seen too many projects go south because the leadership did not take the time to refresh members on crucial training topics or introduce new training for the new venture. 

10. Lead from the bottom. The last rule for this podcast is that you need a mechanism to hear and capture ideas from those doing the work.  The best ideas come from those performing the heavy lifting.  So, develop an incentive system to capture team members’ ideas and offer incentives and recognition when their ideas are used. 

Next week’s blog will examine the guidelines eleven through fifteen. Until then Thrive through Wellness.

Five Essential Guidelines for the Well-Led Organization

Welcome to Part Two of our blog series on wellness in the workplace.  In last week’s blog, we discussed just three of the reasons that a focus on employee wellness was good for the bottom line.  This week’s blog examines the first five of fifteen guidelines for a well-led project, program, or organization.

We at Wellness Leadership, LLC believe that today’s best-led organizations focus on the wellness of their employees first and foremost! Gone are the days when you had to decide between mission and people.  The best way to accomplish the corporate mission is to enable your people to fulfill their purpose! 

Our well-led guidelines operate within the risk management domain.  Every Project Management Professional knows that there are three critical constraints of project management, also known as the Iron Triangle of Project Management: scope, schedule, and budget.  They also are aware of the significant risks that impact these components.  For example, we all know that disagreement among stakeholders over requirements or vision can lead to scope creep and, in turn, impact budget and time.  Likewise, a delay in an external dependency, such as a related project, can impact the schedule and cost.

Yes, the average PMP can rattle off the key risks from the PMI manual and may even be able to come up with a mitigation plan for that risk.  But in my thirty years of experience running and QA’ing projects and teams, I have seen more projects and organizations go off the rails by inadequately accounting for employee wellness.  Here are just three examples.

  1. A project scheduled its critical initial deployment one week after Diwali.  Consequently, when a problem arose just before the release, the vital resources from the India delivery center were not on hand to correct the problem.  The US-based leadership team had addressed the timing for Thanksgiving and Christmas breaks but forgot the key holiday time for most of the resources for their global team.
  2. A key developer and informal leader of the project did not trust the underlying architecture and had voiced his opinion to management.  Instead of discussing and addressing the concern, the project lead indicated that the architecture was used on thousands of projects.  The developer only wanted to make a minor recommendation, but due to the lack of attention, they left the project, taking some critical resources with him.
  3.  A project pushed toward a tight deadline and shifted to a mandatory work schedule.  The new schedule impacted the employee’s non-work appointments, such as school and daycare pick-up, causing anxiety and resentment.  As a result, absenteeism increased, and productivity decreased, impacting the schedule even more.

I could name many more examples, but our 10-15 minute podcast would turn into hours and not be very inspiring.  Instead, I have categorized the top fifteen wellness considerations for projects, programs, and organizations, along with approaches to address these considerations.

Here are the first five guidelines for wellness and corporate success!

1. Acknowledge overwork is counterproductive.  We all know the pressure of tight deadlines and schedules.  The first inclination is to work harder and longer to finish the job on time.  However, overwork is counter-productive and leads to burnout.  A Gallup study found that employees are around 2.6x more likely to search for other jobs if burnt out.  Also, overworked employees tend to make more mistakes and errors in judgments.

I first learned this lesson from my high school football coaches. One year, the new and full of fire coaches conducted a  football camp with three daily hard workouts.  The team lost two critical early games due to injuries, resulting in the team missing the playoffs.  The following year,  the coaches adapted and added a rest period each day at a pool the following year.  Even though the team on paper was less potent than the year before, they won the playoffs. 

The lesson of the football team applies to the workplace.  Overwork in the office can lead to critical mistakes, rework, problems with retention, and absenteeism.  It also can lead to people falling asleep on the job.  Before I got the message on overwork, I remember being on a late-night troubleshooting call and hearing snoring in the background.  Our testing lead, who had been up for almost a day, had fallen asleep.  What are some tricks to avoid overwork?

  1. If someone is allocated as a part-time FTE, do not schedule them for full-time.
  2. For Full-time FTEs, load them in the schedule for no more than 6.5 hours a day. If you are working in an Agile structure, ensure you account for non-productive time in capacity.
  3. If the resulting schedule after correct loading is too tight to hit a deadline, either pull in additional resources or make the hard decision at the start to move the deadline.
  4. Ensure you account for key holidays for all groups on a global team. An excellent way to do this is to subscribe to an online service such as GlobeSmart or your organization’s equivalent.
  5. During a crisis, ensure only the people critical to solving the problem are on the call.  Let the rest off the hook.  Sometimes, this takes some prodding since, in my experience, most people feel vested until they become resentful for too much work.  If people want to stay involved, set up a rotating pool of team members to spell each other.

In closing, you may be able to overwork your team or organization to hit one project deadline.  But rest assured, a good chunk of your team will not be around for the next project.  They will be looking elsewhere as soon as the project is over.  Don’t overwork your team. Instead, build an organization for sustainable success across multiple projects.

2. Build-in time away from work.  A corollary to the first rule is to build dedicated time away from work so people can complete their non-work commitments.  The best way to do this is to plan this approach upfront.  Provide each team member with a block of time during work hours to get non-work commitments done.   You could choose 3 or 4 standard blocks and let people choose their blocks.   The individual schedules would then be loaded into the schedule.  Most people need some time during work hours to get family commitments done.  It is best if a time is built into the schedule so they can rely on it each week and others on their team know.    

For those projects and organizations that must collaborate heavily, look for time to build an organizational non-work block during regular hours.  Even though it was over 30 years ago, I remember when General Shalikashvili used this concept effectively as Commander of the 9th Infantry Division.  All commanders in the division had to cease work while in garrison for three hours each week to allow soldiers to go to the PX or do other family business.  This was quite effective in building morale and allowing soldiers needed family time when not in the field.  It was affectionately known as Shali Day.  Later, General Shalikashvili went on to be the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff.    One last thing on this topic.  Once you establish work hours, set policies to not call, send emails or hold meetings during non-work hours except in real emergencies.  Once the policy is set, lead by example!

3. Incorporate fun and incentives.  Even when you properly plan not to overwork your team and give them appropriate time off, challenging projects and programs can be a slog! It would be best to find a way to make the project fun as the organization strives for a common goal.  One of my first bosses was the master of building fun into the project.   Here is my favorite example.  For one project, she made a poster of the Empire State Building with a stage of the project (design, code, test, etc.) every 30th floor.  She then gave each team a small cut-out image of King Kong with the name of their assigned work stream.  We would gather twice a week at the end of the day to move our King Kongs up the Empire State Building.  You got a lottery ticket for each stage you progressed.  It built fun into a challenging project and built camaraderie.  Some people won up to $100 on the instant lottery ticket.   

4. Offer healthy, culturally appropriate snacks/food.  Projects that run on time need people with energy.  Almost everyone who has been on a project has had a pizza or wings lunch at one time or another.  But that is not what I am talking about.  Pizza and less nutritious foods can be occasional treats, but look to providing your team with healthy snacks.  They need nutritious options to do their best work. When planning outings, include healthy food that fits your team’s dietary needs.  I will never forget the first two times we had a team outing in Texas; the leadership in charge of the food choices ordered barbeque.  That is ok for some people.  But half my team was vegetarian.  After fretting that they only had potato salad for sustenance, I made the rule that all outings were to have a vegan option.  Food that fits a team needs vegetarian food for Indians and healthy snacks.

When it Snows, Stay Home.  Don’t risk your employees’ health from a pandemic or weather risks.  In addition, you should build a schedule contingency for such an occasion and a weather risk with an appropriate mitigation plan.  We should all know about this risk from the recent pandemic, but weather and its impact on employee safety are sometimes not always considered.  Here is a real-life example.  We were pushing for the deadline on a major project, and there was some indication that an ice storm would hit that evening.   Our project team decided to hold a meeting to determine how to deal with other project risks when the organization we were working with left early to avoid the storm.   The risk management meeting went long, and we did three things wrong.

a.  All Southerners, we blew off the risk of the ice storm.

b.  We were so immersed in other risks and their mitigation that no one checked if the risk materialized.   

c.  Once we left for the night and the roads had become exceedingly dangerous, there was no plan to accommodate people in a nearby hotel.

The result was three key people were injured, either walking to their cars or slipping into a ditch.  Bottom line:  Do not discount the ice storms of risk!  Have a mitigation plan and take care of your employee’s safety.

If you want to hear the associated podcast, find it here: Next week’s blog will cover Well-Led Guidelines 6-10. Until then, remember to Change Well.

You can’t love someone to health

“You can’t control another person. It doesn’t matter how much you love them. You can’t love someone back to health and you can’t hate someone back to health and no matter how right you are about something, it doesn’t mean they will change their mind.”

Taylor Jenkins Reid, Daisy Jones & the Six

Anyone who has ever dealt with addiction and unhealthy habits understands the truth behind the statement above from the bestseller and Amazon Prime mini-series Daisy Jones & the Six.  I know from my own experience on both sides of the relationship.  I have tried unsuccessfully to dissuade loved ones from unhealthy habits.  On the flip side, my wife and children tried to stop me from overworking and overeating.  I do not want to stop you from trying to help your family and friends.  However, the truth is that they will not tackle the negative routine until they realize that they have a problem and take concrete steps to change.  They may change for a season, but sooner or later, they will fall into their old routines unless the change is something they want in their soul. 

I will not talk about others, but I know it was the case with my addiction to unhealthy eating and overworking.  Despite my grumpiness and excess weight, I still marvel at how loving my wife and children were to me.  My kids often tried to convince me not to go on an ICR (Ice Cream Run), even though they wanted a Blizzard of their own!  They also had to deal with their dad not keeping up with them or hindering an event.  One event that stands out is my youngest son and daughter when they made the homecoming court.  In the picture below, you see me at near-peak weight after just barely avoiding disaster.  Arriving only 5 minutes from when my wife and I were to walk my son onto the field, my legs cramped up, and I had stretched to the very second I had to arrive on the field. They loved me enough that they wanted me to walk with them.  But I did nothing to change my ways until I was ready.

So, what can you do to help those you love who are off the rails?  There are three things not to do and three things to do.

Not to do:

  1. Nag or beg.   Those in addiction may not do what you want when you love them, but they will not do it if you nag or beg them to stop their behavior.  It will instead put them on the defensive or have them looking for problems on your end.  Here is one example. The few times my wife asked if I really needed another glass of wine or blizzard, I would say something like this:  “You would not ask me this if I had your fidgety habits.  You can eat this and not gain a pound because of your metabolism.”
  2. Disconnect.  I understand that sometimes a person’s addiction threatens to drag you in, so you may need to separate from them, especially during the negative behavior.  But, if at all possible, stay connected with the person.  In that way, you can help them when they are ready.
  3. Enable them.  Even if you do not have a similar temptation, try to avoid activities or actions that trigger the unhealthy behavior of your friend.  If the person drinks excessively, avoid bars and nightclubs on your outings.  If they overeat, avoid the buffet line.  Find other activities that do not trigger harmful habits and potentially reinforce positive habits. 

To Do:

  1. Continue to love them.  I know I opened up with the idea that you cannot love someone into health.  But you can love them through the tough times and be there when they are ready to make a change. 
  2. Intervene when necessary.  Intervention when critical is not the same as nagging.  Also, sometimes love calls for tough medicine.  If someone is about to harm themselves or others, you need to intervene either directly, if possible, or with authorities if you or they are at risk.  When and when not to intervene is often a hard call.    But sometimes, it is the loving thing to do and the only thing to let the other person know they need to change.
  3. Quietly lead by example.  If you can and do not have a similar bad habit, live the positive one you want them to take.  Make a healthy meal.  Ask the workaholic to take a break and walk with you.  It may not work the first or second time.  But, if you keep it up, they will notice your quiet example.

The Ballad of Big D

Reposting of Ballad of Big D on 20th year of his passing:

He was larger than life, his name – Big D,
Born with a heart of gold for all to see,
He loved and fought for his family,
A hero and a teacher, he was everything to me.

Water’s for tear drops, Dickel’s for drinking,
you always knew what Big D was thinking.
Whether at a baseball game or Union hall,
There was never a doubt on what side he’d fall.

Chorus: Big D was not perfect, but he showed perfect love,
In the right direction, you didn’t need to shove,
He always led, never followed,
His pride he at times swallowed,
Guided by a nudge from the Lord above.

He drank a little, cared a lot,
His friends, Big D never forgot,
Luby, Pete, Andy, and John,
None of them forgotten, all of them gone.

We lost him that day, out on the land,
And what followed seem like it was planned,
For God conspired to bring forth new life,
Baby calves to ease the sorrow of his kids and wife.

Chorus: Big D was not perfect, but he showed perfect love,
In the right direction, you didn’t need to shove,
He always led, never followed,
His pride he at times swallowed,
Guided by a nudge from the Lord above

Bridge: Love endures, Faith abounds,
In the silent solace that was found,
From the last story he told his family ,
We love you forever, Our Dad Big D.

Chorus: Big D was not perfect, but he showed perfect love,
In the right direction, you didn’t need to shove,
He always led, never followed,
His pride he at times swallowed,
Guided by a nudge from the Lord above.

If you want to read more about the stories behind the ballad read these blogs on Big D:

https://weightlossleadership.com/2017/12/28/lifes-game-changers-the-power-of-thanksgiving/

https://weightlossleadership.com/2018/04/04/the-lessons-i-leaned-when-running-away/

https://weightlossleadership.com/2017/12/26/lessons-from-leaders-how-to-get-the-iron-out-the-door-and-not-have-it-come-back-in/

https://weightlossleadership.com/2018/06/17/a-fathers-day-tribute-the-one-song-that-always-makes-me-cry/